Well, I spent Valentine's day with my mum. Absolute epitome of romance right there. I've never really celebrated it anyway (not for any strict religious reason - just never seemed to get off my arse and get anything organised) so it was no skin off my nose.
We shipped ourselves off to the Margaret River Chocolate Factory in the Swan Valley for brunch and of course to pick up some choccies for later, which ended up "disappearing" from the fridge with no culprit owning up to the theft. Definitely wasn't me. I just stood in front of the empty plate left in the fridge, shaking my head with an elongated "you bitches" (although I did manage to grab a couple with a cup of tea before the chocolate thief struck).
At this stage I was about 5 days away from my planned cesarean (3 more to go - woohoo) so I was naturally feeling heavy and tired. I pretty much whale-walked myself to the cafe section of the factory and ate up a treat. Part of me intended to stay home for the last week to relax and rest before the big day, until the other half grabbed itself in a choke hold, shook for dear life and reminded me that I'll pretty much be house bound for the next month or so with the aftermath of surgery recovery and the dealings of a newborn baby so I should get out as much as possible now while I can. But with that in mind, I only seem to last about two-three hours before I'm aching to head back home.
I'm having mixed emotions about this pregnancy. For the last couple of weeks I have looking suspiciously at kitchen knives and thinking "If this baby doesn't come out soon, I'll evict it myself" because you know, cutting sandwiches and cutting a uterus open are surely the same thing...
I'm at the end of it, which means it hurts to walk, to move, to switch sleeping positions, to sit upright, etc - the whole thing is basically wearing me down and I can't wait to give birth, not only to see my son but to also feel somewhat normal again. At the same time it is a bit melancholic because for all personal intents and purposes this will be my last pregnancy. No more babies after this. I feel a bit sad about that so I'm kinda dwelling on the roundness that is my stomach at the moment. In years to come I am going to miss the pregnancy feeling but will of course look at the two children I do have and be thankful for their existence. It will be the last time I look like this...
On the menu:
A pot of English breakfast tea with one massive scone, accompanied with the usual jam and cream. At first I was a bit put off paying $5 for one mere scone but the thing was like a mountain so the price was understandable.
Followed by quiche and salad (vegetarian for me - ham & cheese for my mum). My daughter also got her own kids meal. The quiche was awesome. A little on the small side for $15 but so damn tasty.
It was such a summery day that I went with brighter colours and pastels for the morning out - all to match my much beloved lace tipped cardi that I wore over my sleeveless abaya (I'll have to do a DIY post on that later).
Details
Sleeveless Abaya ~ Me
Hijab ~ Nahda Designs
Cardigan ~ Ally Fashion
Necklace ~ Maylands
Bag ~ LV
Ring ~ YSL










amazing post mashaAllah..so full of colours ...but
ReplyDeleteyou have written that u cant have kinds now, why is it so.. (i am not yet married and too much curious).. and i discovered that you wear a spectacle too... cheers.. specky hijaabeez...
No real major reason - just a life choice to only have two kids.
Deleteokay. i thought it had to do with certain some medical jargon. i had heard doctors don't allow a pregnancy after 3 Cesarean..or something like that..
DeleteYou look really nice pregnant mashaallahh.. I felt my body looked really good as pregnant.. Clothes looked cute with that gorgeous bump.
ReplyDeleteThanks Sarah. Most women look good pregnant.
DeleteHow and why is it that your mum had 'HAM AND CHEESE" quiche? Is your mum not a muslim? Ham is pork which is forbidden in Islam??
ReplyDeleteNo one in my family is Muslim, except for me. And even if they were it is not for you to question their choices. I find that highly rude.
DeleteOh no, no, ham isn't pork at all, agro dude. "HAM" stands for 'H'ey m'A'ybe you should 'M'ind your own business. :)
DeleteI swear its as if they purposefully wrote the comment to sound annoying. arrrrr
DeleteI get this all the time.
DeleteThat necklace and final scarf are stunning. Hope you manage to get comfortable & rest in the days & weeks before your little one comes along. Inshallah everything will go well. Chocolate thief aside, you seem to be finding delicious food to get you through the last past of your pregnancy. I'm so tempted by the scones : D
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Thanks Sarita!
DeleteI always manage to find food, hahaha.
i testify. "you always find delicious food"
DeleteI hope the birth goes smoothly!! :) And I love your necklace, so cute... it reminds me of the candy necklaces I used to wear (and eat!) as a kid
ReplyDeleteYeah that's why I bought it - because of the candy/lolly resemblance.
DeleteI really like the bright colours of that necklace!! Reminds me of spring :)
ReplyDeletePastels always remind me of flowers.
DeleteMashallah you look stunning sweet mum-to-be !! Great and joyfull colors !!
ReplyDeleteLamia
http://www.ginger-chocolateandhoney.blogspot.com/
Thanks Lamia!
DeleteLol, every time I see one of these posts I wish I could go and eat with you. :) Cheers!
ReplyDelete<3 Maryam
I'd make you fat with all the crap I eat, lol.
DeleteYeah, but what a ride. ;)
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Masha'Allah Ange. You look beautiful pregnant,truly! I had to have cesarean births and I know for me, that 3 was the limit. Actually it was supposed to be two, but Allah, swt is most merciful and allowed me to conceive and carry my daughter, almost to term.. she was born 3 weeks and 4 days early, so the testing said, as my uterus ruptured. Anyway, this is about you... enjoy your roundness and revel in it! Eat something sinfully decadent before you have "A" too! :-) I drool at your foody-porn! You should take some pictures to put away of your belly too, it is the one thing that I did and found that I was so glad to have them later. I love your style but then again you know this... I still have '5 dolla' with your name on it for that pink clutch...???!!! :-) I can't wait to "meet" little "A" via the wonderful world of technology!! Be well sweet girl, give sweet beautiful "M" kisses from her 'virtual Auntie' in Wisconsin!
ReplyDelete~Teri
Yeah I'm silently shitting myself over having my second C-section. Surgery is not fun.
DeleteThe next food I'll be eating is shitty hospital food. I'm already dreading the blandness.
Might need to add a few more digits to that $5, lol.
Oh my damn! I hate this thing, this is the second time I have written a nice post only to have it not "take" ... ergh! Anyway as I was saying... Take pictures of your belly, it was the one thing that I did that I was most thankful for later on. I had to have cesarean births as well, I was only to have 2 but Allah, is most kind. I was able to carry my daughter almost to term. She was born 3 weeks and 4days early as my uterus ruptured. At any rate, this is about you :o) ... revel in your roundness! Enjoy it, I know it get's long at the end. Eat something sinfully decadent right before you have "A"!! Pregnancy looks beautiful on you.. you wear it stunningly! I still have '5 dolla' with your name on it for that pink clutch.. just sayin :-) Give sweet baby "M" kisses from her 'virtual *self appointed* Auntie' in Wisconsin! Be well, recover quickly! I can't wait to meet your little bundle via this wonderful world of technology that we share! You will be in my duaas sweet girl!
ReplyDelete~Teri
Haha you do this all the time!
DeleteWhy are you having a c-section?
ReplyDeleteBecause I had one last time.
DeleteOh your food photos are always to die for, not to mention the fashion. Praying the birth is smooth and mom and baby are healthy and happy, very soon.
ReplyDeleteThat's because food is awesome. I like it too much.
DeleteThanks!
I hope everything goes well for you and you have a smooth recovery. And that your baby boy is as healthy as can be...and will let you get some rest!
ReplyDeleteim going to assume the baby is born by the time i write this so congratulations! V day was good for me actually, as my parents anniversary is then. i get them chocolates, and some for me :P
ReplyDeleteSalam Angeeee hope you and bubs are well!!! Missing your posts but totally understand that you're busy with the new baby and your family. Just wanted to say that I hope everything is okay with you guys. All the best!
ReplyDeleteTeira (new reader)